Picture: Graham Bonner and his granddaughter Cleagh. Credit score: John Angerson
I had no thought what was coming – on the Sunday I’d gone for a 50-mile cycle trip with no issues in any respect. However by the Wednesday I used to be doubled up in ache after which rushed to A&E. I used to be informed, ‘you might have a tumour in your kidney, and it’s more likely to be most cancers.’
It rocked every little thing, I used to be a wholesome and match man – a type of individuals who was crusing by way of life. Issues like this did not occur to me.
That was in April 2020 and three months later I went for surgical procedure to take away the tumour. However scans in early 2021 confirmed the most cancers had unfold to my lungs, lymph nodes and stomach.
My spouse Trish and I referred to as in to see my mother and father to allow them to know what the scenario was, and I couldn’t even inform them. I attempted to, however the phrases simply wouldn’t come out.
I knew it was dangerous. With a kidney, you possibly can take away it, however you possibly can’t take out your lungs.
I had every little thing to reside for
I used to be going downhill in a short time, and docs informed me it was not curable, however that they hoped immunotherapy would sluggish the unfold down and provides me extra time. I had every little thing to reside for: my spouse, my three great kids Michael, Laura and Eve – and our first grandchild was nearly to be born.
However I used to be struggling. I couldn’t take my garments on and off. I couldn’t climb stairs and it felt like I used to be attempting to breathe by way of a straw the entire time. Work stopped, every little thing stopped other than hospital visits. Getting from the automotive to the hospital therapy room was a journey I used to dread. It was like having a hearth in your lungs that by no means went away.
I began my first spherical of immunotherapy in February 2021. It was the primary of 4 doses of a mixture of medicine referred to as ipilimumab and nivolumab. However by then I used to be on oxygen 24 hours a day, seven days per week, and the hospice staff had been concerned.
The tumour principally disappeared
Trish and I knew I needed to be effectively sufficient to finish all 4 doses of the preliminary immunotherapy, so we did every little thing doable to make me really feel pretty much as good as I might, together with complementary therapies – means earlier than I used to be recognized Trish had educated to assist sufferers at our native most cancers centre. Along with her assist, I used to be capable of get by way of it.
I’d developed a lump in a lymph node on my neck. And because the most cancers progressed, the lump had additionally progressed. It was a visible indicator for me of what was occurring with the most cancers that I could not see. And at its worst, it grew to the scale of a golf ball. However because the immunotherapy began to take over, I might bodily really feel the lump beginning to get smaller and smaller. Because the therapy progressed, the lump that I had – the tumour – principally disappeared.
I keep in mind waking up someday, and it was the primary morning in months that I used to be truly capable of take a great lungful of air with none ache and with none discomfort.
Then I didn’t want the oxygen and I simply step by step began getting stronger with small incremental enhancements.
Picture: Graham Bonner and his spouse Trish. Credit score: John Angerson
Immunotherapy has been exceptional for me
I can keep in mind the primary time I received again on my bike once more. It was the summer season of 2021, round 4 months after beginning immunotherapy. It was perhaps two laps of the picnic desk. However it was two laps that I believed I’d by no means, ever do once more.
Immunotherapy has been exceptional for me. Through the preliminary therapy we had been taking every little thing one step at a time, simply getting by way of the subsequent four-week spherical.
I don’t assume we ever dreamt that I’d be the place I’m now, working full-time and having fun with my life to the total. This was actually not what the docs had anticipated and in February 2023 my scan confirmed no proof of illness.
I’m nonetheless going by way of therapy – I obtain nivolumab as soon as a month. However by no means in one million years did I believe I’d be at this stage of health. I’m again biking most weekends, however household time is extra essential to me now greater than ever, so I don’t have to get out on the bike – simply figuring out I can is sufficient.
Picture: Graham Bonner rides his bike at Lough Neagh. Credit score: John Angerson
I can be eternally grateful
I’ve been alive and effectively to see our first grandchild Brodie after which his youthful sister Cleagh being born. Watching our son Michael and his spouse Chantelle grow to be mother and father was a proud second.
I’ve additionally been capable of stroll our daughter Laura down the aisle when she married Christopher and now await the arrival of their first born. My youngest daughter Eve is finding out for her A ranges and studying to drive – serving to her has given me such satisfaction.
All of those are issues I’d simply not have been right here to do, and Trish and I can be eternally grateful that my marketing consultant and staff selected to provide me an opportunity with immunotherapy as a first-line therapy.
Picture: Graham, Trish and their household. Credit score: John Angerson
The ICR’s work is significant
The work that The Institute of Most cancers Analysis is doing is significant to assist extra folks survive most cancers.
However even scientists don’t totally comprehend why immunotherapy is profitable for some, and never for others.
They desperately want to raised perceive the way it works, so extra folks can have the possibility to regain their well being in the best way I’ve.
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